I am great friends with a few trans women and they do not find this board offensive. Infact they want the cows on the board gone from their circle. But they can't tell people that because they'll get called posers by left extremists.

If all you can do is look at vulgar language and extrapolate your own meaning from it, looking for things to be offended by, then you will never see anything beyond the image you have created in your head. I will not try to help you any further. Evidently you are not interested unless you can find a way to feel correct about everything.